In my preceding post, Interracial Relationships in the United States, I discussed the growing number of White women marrying (or otherwise engaging in romantic and sexual relationships with) Black men: a phenomenon often called "Jungle Fever."
In that post, I characterized Dr. William Lee Howard, who wrote The Negro as a Distinct Ethnic Factor in Civilization, as a revolting racist who was ashamed of the inadequate size of his paltry privy member. I have since reviewed the Feminist literature and websites, and have found no Feminist objection to "Jungle Fever." Some White men, who share Dr. Howard's prejudices, do feel threatened, as do some Black women. For example, one blogger who writes under the pseudonym TruthAngel07, wrote:
How Black Women Got Conned By White Feminism
Back in the 1970’s, millions of white women burned their bras in defiance for being bored housewives. They created a movement basically convincing women that being a stay at home mother was terrible and damn white men for treating them like queens. White women became the trick that convinced many Black women that they didn’t need Black men and for those who were naive enough to believe this lie; the White Feminist movement became the biggest con of all to try and subjugate and dominate Black women in a way that slavery, White Supremacy or Black men never could. The objective: To take her away from the Black man.
For the most part, the majority of Black women never bought into feminism. Black women have always worked and in Africa; the woman was esteemed.
What was the con? The White Feminist movement tricked some Black women into fighting for something they already had: FREEDOM. There is an old cliche that speaks to this: “The only two things that are free in America are a black woman and a white man.”
White women can’t stand Black women–many fear us. However, they don’t mind using Black women, particularly those naive enough to buy into dome pseudo-sisterhood that quite frankly, is the ultimate oxymoron.
What do we see today?
Black men and women at odds. And who’s in bed with the Black man, sistahs? WHITE WOMEN!
During the 1970s, the white woman told the black woman to “get out of the kitchen”, get on the birth control pill, get an abortion and stop having babies; because women should not be “barefoot pregnant, and in a hot kitchen.”
But, 25 years later, these SAME White, Feminist women are now sleeping with black men, cooking for black men, marrying Black men and seeking to have half-Black children….duh!!!!!
This, and this alone proves how black women have been tricked out of their own men by Women’s Lib’...the same way Eve was tricked by the snake in the Garden of Paradise. This should teach us all a lesson.
A woman’s place is at home; and if we don’t say this, then how will women ever know what their proper place is while Feminists are in the media, all day and night, telling women otherwise?!!
Since Black women deserted Black Liberation and Black men, White women simply adopted him like he was a poor, lost, lonely stray puppy. This is best typified by the epic movie Jungle Fever....
...I wrote an article on this blog speaking to the image of our community asking why they are promoting Interracial unions between Whites and Blacks; and I started thinking about all of the imagery and political ploys that have been directed at our community over a generation that was designed to subliminally tear the Black family apart. But why? What is White America so afraid of? Does the image of strong, happy, successful, Black people scare White folks that bad? You have to think deep as to the WHY on this one: BLACK POWER!!! And Black unity is a threat to White Supremacy.
Okay, fine. I'll state the obvious. Miss Truthangel07 is a despicable, disgusting racist who feels sorry for herself because she can't get any cock. Obviously. Otherwise, she wouldn't be spending her time complaining about it on the internet. The anti-miscegenation laws ended almost 50 years ago, and people may have coitus with whom they please (provided the coitus is, at least officially, uncompensated; all parties have attained the "legal age of consent"; the coitus involves no rape nor coercion; and, depending upon the jurisdiction, no participant is married to anyone else). Black women are no longer able to keep Black penises all to themselves. It wasn't Feminism, but rather desegregation, and the end of official apartheid in the United States, which broke up that monopoly. Lots of White chicks really like Black men,
and the Asian-American ladies agree.
When a commodity (such as a Black man's cock) is rare and in high demand, its market price goes up. See my earlier post on economics. Black men have something that a lot of women, whether Black, White or Asian, want, and the women are just going to have to work that much harder at being sweet and seductive to get what they want. Competition is tight. Some Black women are coming up short, and blaming White Feminists for taking their men. Such women really ought to focus their efforts on trying to learn what it is that men want, and on figuring out how to deliver it. Here's a hint: you'll catch more flies with honey than with vinegar. See, for example, this clip from Diary of a Tired Black Man:
A man shouldn't feel compelled to marry or to remain with a shrewish woman, merely because her skin tone matches his. A man should find a woman who pleases him, and who makes him happy. That is all that matters. Nothing else.
Contrary to Miss TruthAngel07's accusation that "White Feminist women are now sleeping with Black men, cooking for Black men, marrying Black men and seeking to have half-Black children": if Black men are actually taming the White Feminists, then more power to them. That's quite an accomplishment.
As mentioned in a prior post, the Feminists produced a rather longlist (which, nonetheless, was "not intended to be exhaustive or exclusive") of demands concerning the behavior of husbands in heterosexual marriages (and of men in other types of heterosexual relationships). The very first edict on the list, of course, is: "Do 50% (or more!) of housework. You need to do your share of housework all the time, of your own accord, without procrastinating, without being asked, without making excuses." Item Number 3 is interesting: "In whatever your interests are -- French cinema, astrophysics, baseball,
birdwatching -- ensure that women’s voices and women’s cultural
products are represented in what you are consuming. If they are not,
make an effort to seek them out!" Now that sounds like a really good reason to watch some belly dancing, and to give our Patriarchal Gaze some exercise. Note that Feminists have no similar list of suggestions for women to follow in order to please men. Quite the opposite. Which leaves women relying on grocery store magazines for advice.
Really? Sixty-seven new sex tricks? It sounds more like a professional journal for serious harlots.
If it is true, as Miss Truthangel07 proclaims, that White Feminists are sleeping with, cooking for, and marrying Black men (who have a lot of options), then perhaps it is the Black man's enchanted rod which is taming the savage breast.
Otherwise, it just seems completely out of the Feminist character.
But even Black American men, who are at the top of America's sexual hierarchy, feel frustrated with American women, and are high-tailing it to Brazil, as illustrated in Al Greeze's powerful documentary film, Frustrated.
Some selected gems from Frustrated:
--Women are noticing that their men are crossing the borders to find happiness, romance, or even just someone to have a good time and hang out with....
--I met guys who would love to come down here. And I tell them: "You don't want to come down to Rio, because if you do, you're going to come back thinking 'How can I get rid of her?' This will change your thinking of women down here...Take you wife on an Alaskan cruise. Don't bring her to Rio, because you're going to come back seriously depressed when you hit the states."
--A lot of times, you know, the women keep themselves up here. They take care of themselves. And they take care of the Brothers, too. A lot of Brothers come here, because instead of taking someone with baggage on a trip, when a Nigger comes to a place where they can pay a quarter of the cost, have access to nice beaches, beautiful women, good food, and brothers can come and chop it up. Relax.
--I have several friends who have up and moved to Brazil, and I have found that the relationship levels there are totally different than here. They find that the women are definitely much more, uh, I don't want to use the word "subservient", because that's not what it is. I would say more caring of them and who they are, and respect them as men, and treat them as such. And it has nothing to do with how much they make. It has nothing to do with anything else than them just being a man.
--I see a lot of Black American women come here. They hold their heads down because they can't hold a candle to these chicks down here. Because they take care of themselves. They're sexy in what they wear, how they carry themselves.
--I work hard, you know, in the state and in the city that I live in. You don't get embraced. I leave America and come here. Brazil is a nice country. She gives me warmth. Embraces me. I came here and I met the "natives" if you will, and the respect--not admiration, but just the respect factor, man. I come here now, because the women treat me like the man that I know that I am. See, back home, you gotta buy all that. I have to buy your respect. I gotta buy your time. You can't take a sister out back home, man, with nothing. To me, a lot of the sisters who are working are, to me, gravitating toward negative guys. You know, pants hanging down. Hair every which way. To me, that's not being a man. If you can work, pay your bills, and be responsible, and be a productive member of society, then that makes you a decent man. Women don't seem to like that any more.
--I do think the ladies here could teach the American women some things about how to treat your man. Because the drama is just not here with them. I mean, even though they know we're transient, they don't come to you with drama all the time. I mean, in the States within a week I'd be getting all the drama and all the baggage and I'd be like "man, we've only known each other for a couple of days, you know, and you hit me with your bad credit, your messed up marriages", and I'm looking at all this stuff, and I tell women...to women who tell me they've been married four or five times, I say "What you need to say is that you've been divorced four or five times. That tells a person more about you than to say 'I've been married four or five times.'" Something could have happened to the guy. He could have died. But if you tell me that you've been divorced four or five times, that tells me that you have relationship problems.
And, it certainly isn't just the Black gents who are lured by the charms of the Brazilian garotas. Here is Arnold on the subject:
...To Brazilians, especially men, the Mulata is the symbol of everything sexy and erotic. During Carnival, hordes of Mulata bodies begin to move in ways that a fitness expert like myself can't believe. One thing I do believe: they must be very healthy....
...After watching the Mulatas shake it, I can absolutely understand why Brazil is totally devoted to my favorite body part: the ass. Especially during Carnival...
A man who doesn't appreciate the Brazilian bundas, and especially the bundasmulatas, has to be either asexual or gay. The popular TLC television show 90 Day Fiance featured an American-Brazilian couple.
No way was that guy going to find a wife like that, anywhere in the United States.
And, whilst middle-class American men, both Black and White, are exploring their options in Brazil, what are the economically-successful and upper-class Black men getting for themselves? The celebrities, sports heroes, and Supreme Court justices?
White chicks, assuredly. And, other than Clarence Thomas, really hawt White chicks. In light of the revelations associated with the Anita Hill fiasco, I'm surprised that Mr. Thomas hasn't yet dumped her for a Victoria's Secret model. Speaking of Miss Hill, she is still single, as is Condoleeza Rice (who has reportedly taken up Lesbianism).
With so many Black American women ending up high and dry, more of them probably ought to give some thought to some of the comments from the gents in the Frustrated documentary, and consider steps that they might take to make themselves more appealing to men. Don't get angry and defensive, and forget about that outdated "Black Power" nonsense. None of that is going to help. "Miscegenation" in the United States officially began when Pocahontas
married John Rolfe, and has been continuing ever since. As previously discussed,
most African-Americans have at least some European ancestry, and the
majority of Americans with African ancestry are classified as White. At one time, African Americans with light skin (as a result of European ancestry) were called "High Yellow" (see, for example, the movie, High Yellow). Here is how Time Magazine described the great French writer, Alexandre Dumas, in 1929:
The Man. Quadroon son of a black-mothered father, Napoleon's reckless
General Alexandre Dumas, born in July 1802, was blue-eyed, thick-lipped,
with fairish, crisply negroid hair. His skin's yellow was so high it
was almost white.
And, indeed, the original lyrics to the iconic Southern song, The Yellow Rose of Texas, went like this:
There’s a Yellow girl in Texas
That I'm going down to see;
No other Darkies know her,
No Darkie, only me;
She cried so when I left her
That it like to broke my heart,
And if I only find her,
We never more will part.
Chorus: She's the sweetest girl of colour
That this Darkie ever knew;
Her eyes are bright as diamonds,
And sparkle like the dew.
You may talk about your Dearest Mae,
And sing of Rosa Lee,
But the Yellow Rose of Texas
Beats the belles of Tennessee.
Of course, nowadays the term "Yellow", as an ethnonym, refers generally to Asians rather than to light-skinned people of mixed European-African ancestry. The phrase "Yellow Fever" now popularly refers to White men who like Asian women, rather than to White men who might take pleasure in attending a Quadroon Ball.
And, speaking of Yellow Fever, lots of Asian men are consequently being left single.
I suspect that earlier generations would have characterized the wife in the above video as "Yellow." Anyway, more Black women really should consider "crossing the color line." Matching more Asian men with Black women would probably benefit both populations. Other than that, my only suggestion would be either to follow Miss Rice's example and take up Lesbianism, or to get yourself a Sybian.
Here is the Mighty Sparrow, with our closing hymn.
The 1967 Supreme Court decision in Loving v. Virginia finally ushered in an end to various insidious and disgusting state-level anti-"miscegenation" laws in the United States.
In convicting the Lovings of committing felony marriage, Judge Leon M. Bazile, a most degenerate and vile idiot, famously opined:
Almighty God created the races white, black, yellow, malay and red, and
he placed them on separate continents. And, but for the interference
with his arrangement, there would be no cause for such marriage. The
fact that he separated the races shows that he did not intend for the
races to mix.
Such arrant nonsense. If Almighty God has any sense of justice at all, then this loathsome creature
certainly has his eternal place in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone. It is absolutely ludicrous that such an ignorant, dishonorable reprobate could become a judge, even in a backwater state like Virginia. For one thing, a judge in the United States is supposed to base his decision solely upon the applicable laws and legal arguments presented during a case. The First Amendment precludes any sort of religious considerations from weighing in upon a legal decision. For another thing, what sort of cockamamie religion states that God "did not intend for the races to mix?" Certainly not any form of Christianity. Timothy, one of Christianity's "Founding Fathers", had a Greek father and a Jewish mother. Hell, even Moses married a Black woman, and Yahweh was cool with it. Numbers 12:
And Miriam and Aaron spake against Moses because of the Ethiopian woman whom he had married: for he had married an Ethiopian woman. And they said, "Hath the Lord indeed spoken only by Moses? Hath he not spoken also by us?" And the Lord heard it.
Now the man Moses was very meek, above all the men which were upon the face of the earth. And the Lord spake suddenly unto Moses, and unto Aaron, and unto Miriam, "Come out ye three unto the tabernacle of the congregation." And they three came out.
And the Lord came down in the pillar of the cloud, and stood in the door of the tabernacle, and called Aaron and Miriam: and they both came forth. And he said, "Hear now my words: If there be a prophet among you, I the Lord will make myself known unto him in a vision, and will speak unto him in a dream. My servant Moses is not so, who is faithful in all mine house. With him will I speak mouth to mouth, even apparently, and not in dark speeches; and the similitude of the Lord shall he behold: wherefore then were ye not afraid to speak against my servant Moses?"
And the anger of the Lord was kindled against them; and he departed. And the cloud departed from off the tabernacle; and, behold, Miriam became leprous, white as snow: and Aaron looked upon Miriam, and, behold, she was leprous. And Aaron said unto Moses, "Alas, my lord, I beseech thee, lay not the sin upon us, wherein we have done foolishly, and wherein we have sinned. Let her not be as one dead, of whom the flesh is half consumed when he cometh out of his mother's womb."
And Moses cried unto the Lord, saying, "Heal her now, O God, I beseech thee."
And the Lord said unto Moses, "If her father had but spit in her face, should she not be ashamed seven days? let her be shut out from the camp seven days, and after that let her be received in again."
And Miriam was shut out from the camp seven days: and the people journeyed not till Miriam was brought in again. And afterward the people removed from Hazeroth, and pitched in the wilderness of Paran.
What Judge Bazile did to the Lovings was a lot worse than what Miriam had done, which amounted to nothing more than some stupid, idle gossip, but which Yahweh nonetheless took quite seriously. This ignorant, fuckwit of a judge obviously possessed nothing but contempt for the Constitution of the United States of America, and probably never even bothered to read the fucking Bible. Moreover, just look at what kind of ridiculous garbage appears in Virginia law:
Section 20-54 of the Virginia Code provides:
Intermarriage prohibited; meaning of term "white persons."
-- It shall hereafter be unlawful for any white person in this State to
marry any save a white person, or a person with no other admixture of
blood than white and American Indian. For the purpose of this chapter,
the term "white person" shall apply only to such person as has no trace
whatever of any blood other than Caucasian; but persons who have
one-sixteenth or less of the blood of the American Indian and have no
other non-Caucasic blood shall be deemed to be white persons. All laws
heretofore passed and now in effect regarding the intermarriage of white
and colored persons shall apply to marriages prohibited by this
chapter
Va.Code Ann. § 20-54 (1960 Repl. Vol.).
The exception for persons with less than
one-sixteenth "of the blood of the American Indian" is apparently
accounted for, in the words of a tract issued by the Registrar of the
State Bureau of Vital Statistics, by "the desire of all to recognize as
an integral and honored part of the white race the descendants of John
Rolfe and Pocathontas. . . ."
"White" Virginians think that they are so fucking great, just for being "White?" As John the Baptist said to the Pharisees and Sadducees: "think not to say within yourselves, 'We have Abraham to our father': for I say unto you, that God is able of these stones to raise up children unto Abraham." God can make "White" people out of stones as easily as he could make Jews.
In 1958, Robert Stuckert estimated that over 28 million "White" persons in the United States had some Black African ancestry, which meant that the majority of persons with African ancestry were classified as "White." If DNA testing had been available at the time, then quite a lot of "White" Southerners would have been compelled to relinquish the privileges that came with being "White." Which would have meant giving up their homes, their jobs, their schools, having to sit in the back of the bus, having to drink from the "Colored" drinking fountain, having to sit in "Colored" waiting rooms, and not being able to eat in restaurants. And, having to be perfectly deferential to "White" people at all times, while facing the constant threat of being lynched.
Most of Sally Hemings' children identified themselves as "White" and lived in "White" communities after their manumission. Perhaps the most important and influential book in American history was Harriet Beecher Stowe's Uncle Tom's Cabin, which brought into sharp focus the severe brutality of slavery in the United States. Mark Twain wrote an entertaining story, The Tragedy of Pudd'nhead Wilson, about two half-brothers, born the same day, one slave and one free, and who were practically identical in appearance. Southern reviewers, like Martha McCulloch Williams, were quite outraged by the work:
...."Pudd'nhead Wilson" is more than stupid....it is at once malicious and misleading. So much so, indeed, that involuntarily one recalls the gentleman who, it was said, "went to his memory for his wit, and his imagination for his facts."
It certainly seems to me that Mr. Clemens must have imagined all the local color of his tale. It has to do with Dawson's Landing, a small Missouri town on the Mississippi, populated largely with F. F. V.'s, all of whom are slave-holders, as are the rest of the inhabitants. Right here I wish to ask why it is that the Southern man who has an honest and decent pride in the fact that he comes of good stock fares so ill at the hands of certain literary gentlemen? Bret Harte gives us Colonel Starbottle as his type. Mr. Cable has won fame and fortune and the heart of the whole North by demonstrating to its entire satisfaction how heartlessly and continually all his well-born gentlemen overstep the color line. Last of all, Mark Twain has set himself the task of showing how impossible it is for a man to have a great-grandfather and, at the same time, any regard for the Decalogue.
Perhaps the gentlemen are bent on gleaning the full harvest of "Uncle Tom's Cabin." Perhaps, too, they are wise in so doing. In my seven years North, I have more than once been asked by people who regarded themselves as very well informed "if there were still in the South any pure blacks at all, or any pure-blooded whites?" At first such questioning made me angry. Later, I have come to recognize it as the legitimate outcome of the deliverances of Mr. Cable and his school. Now that Mark Twain has come under their banner, the impression will doubtless become more than ever current. For he has -- and has deserved -- the widest public of any living American writer. And it is a melancholy fact that the sheep instinct of humanity is so strong as to make it follow en masse into any pasture of opinion where he may lead. A still more melancholy fact is the inability of many folk to judge a thing with eyes blinded by the glamour of a great reputation...
I suspect that people of purely African descent are relatively rare in the African-American population. I suppose it is a fair question: "are there, in the South, (not counting recent immigrants) any pure-blooded Whites?" Particularly in light of the recent disclosure concerning this racist idiot, Craig Cobb:
To think that Mr. Cobb showed up at Rosa Parks' funeral, just to make videos of people reacting to his yelling of ludicrous malarchy like "Rosa Parks was a shitskin communist," and "I'm here to celebrate her death!" Well, Mr. Cobb is going to have to move to the back of the bus, now, and sit there with the other "shitskins." A little over 150 years ago, this "nigger" could have been abducted and sold down the river. Mr. Cobb also apparently suffers from some sort of sexual dysfunction, as he failed even to woo a wife in Estonia. But, seriously, who wants to marry a self-loathing Negro, even in Estonia?
Speaking of Estonia, some idiotic White Nationalist posted the following (and I'm not going to honor that vile and vicious troll site with a link):
Warning to Estonian Women:
A really nasty sex tourist from America (of Middle Eastern descent) has arrived in Tartu, Estonia. He came from Latvia after staying there a month or two. His goal is to lure into sex as many Estonian women as possible, especially very young girls. His name is Daryush Valizedeh, nickname - Roosh, and he is a pick up artist who believes women should be treated "like garbage". This includes beautiful, young white women of Baltic and Nordic descent.
The problem here is not sex itself, or travel for sex as such, but the guy's attitude - he has no respect for women and believes it is ok to manipulate them, use them and then denigrate them. He thinks it's ok to use the most beautiful women in the world and treat them like garbage.
Also, this person is not white which makes it even more problematic...
Mr. Valizadeh is half-Iranian and half-Armenian, and he enjoyed considerably better luck with the Estonian ladies than did Mr. Cobb. If the White Nationalists choose to accept the US Census Bureau's definition of "White": "A person having origins in any of the original peoples of Europe, the Middle East, or North Africa", then Mr. Valizadeh meets the official standards of being "White." If the White Nationalists prefer Hitler's criteria: the Nazis esteemed the Iranians as "pure-blooded Aryans", with full "Aryan" privileges. Iranians were completely exempt from the restrictions of the Nuremberg Racial Laws.
As for Estonia and the other Baltic countries: Generalplan Ost called for the local population to be killed, deported, enslaved or "Germanized", and for 10 million "ethnic Germans" to be moved in after the area was cleansed. Estonians were clearly less "Aryan", and therefore less human, than Iranians.
German soldiers engaged in quite a lot of sexual violence, particularly in Eastern Europe.
Wallus: "In Warsaw, our troops had to wait in line in front of the building's door. In Radom, the first room was full while the truck people stood outside. Each
woman had 14 to 15 men per hour. They replaced the women every two
days."
Things must have been getting rather sloppy by the end of the second day.
Müller: "When I was in Kharkov, everything was destroyed except the center of the city. A
wonderful city, a wonderful memory. All the people there spoke a little
German, which they had learned in school. And in Taganrogthere were wonderful cinemas and wonderful beach cafés. I went
everywhere in a truck. And all you saw were women doing compulsory
labor." Fausst: "Oh, my God!" Müller: "They were building roads, drop-dead gorgeous girls. So we
drove by, pulled them into the truck, screwed them and them threw them
out again. Boy, they sure cursed at us."
While the American White Nationalists claim that they dislike the idea of an American of Iranian descent seducing Eastern European women, the Nazis might have invited this fellow to breed with Norwegian girls, to produce some prestigious Lebensborn babies. The Nazis certainly wouldn't have begrudged his boning a few women in the Soviet Union. What a bunch of fucking morons America's damned White Nationalists are. They're such pathetic fools, that they don't even know whom they are supposed to hate. If Hitler had won, then there wouldn't even be any Estonians in Estonia today. But, Hitler lost, and so there are no "Aryans" living anywhere east of Germany any more. Eastern Europe is now strictly for the non-"Aryans."
Anyway, ever since the Supreme Court set the issue straight, interracial marriage has been on the rise in the United States, as our citizens have heeded the divine call to fruitfulness and multiplication, as demonstrated in this table from the US Census Bureau.
The "Other" category probably includes American Indians, possibly Pacific Islanders, mixed-race people, and people who just didn't answer the "race" question. The Census Bureau relies on people to self-report their race. The Census Bureau isn't going to ask for a pedigree like the degenerate old Southern racists, and neither will the Census Bureau send a doctor to take cranial measurements, like the ridiculous Nazis. The Census Bureau simply takes the respondent's word for it. Even if Mr. Cobb wishes to maintain the fantasy that he is White, the Census Bureau isn't going to call him out on it. Probably a lot of people who didn't answer the "race" question were people of Hispanic descent, as the Spanish translation of the word "race", raza, doesn't mean the same thing as the word "race" does to the Anglophone world. A lot of people in Latin America are racially mixed. While the United States had laws that prohibited "miscegenation", so as to preserve the privileges of White people over others (especially Blacks and American Indians), many Latin American countries were actively promoting racial mixing, usually with the goal of blanqueamiento, or "whitening" the general population. At one extreme, José Gaspar Rodríguez de Francia issued a decree that all White Paraguayans had to marry a person of another race, as a means of resolving the country's racial problems.
To get back to the United States, and for the sake of simplified analysis and discussion, I've removed the
"Other" category from the above table, so that we are only looking at couples where both spouses
self-identify as purebred, and either White, Black or Asian:
Married couples in the United States in 2010 (thousands) wrote:
Wife:....................... White...... Black...... Asian
White Husband.......... 50,410....... 168........ 529
Black Husband............... 390..... 4,072........ 39
Asian Husband............... 219......... 9.... 2,855
Asian women accounted for 6% of the total wives, but a whopping 42% of the wives in interracial marriages.
White Husbands with Asian wives made up 39% of all inter-racial marriages.
The second most common interracial mating is Black Men with White Wives: 29% of inter-racial pairs.
We have about 340,000 more married Asian women than men, about 252,000
more married Black men than women, and 88,000 more married White men
than women. Percentage-wise, the situation seems more acute for Asian
guys. For White women--88,000 is a drop in the bucket, since Whites are
most numerous. For Black women: it is more like a cupfull in the
bucket.
Especially Asian guys, but also Black women, seem to be getting the
short end of the stick, as Asian women pursue White men, and White women
chase after Black men.
One theory that seeks to explain this phenomenon has to do with the fact that average penis size varies by race: Black men have the biggest, followed by White men, followed by Asians. To back up this assertion: one survey showed that condoms made to international sizes were too big for Indian men. South Africans, on the other hand, complained of condoms being too small for their massive appendages.
Here is Rajiv Satyal on the subject:
And, Russell Peters concurs:
If there is anything to what Esther Ku is saying:
then perhaps many of the Asian women who chase after White men, and White women pursuing Black men, are at least partially motivated by the desire for a sausage upgrade.
In the June, 1903 issue of the prestigious journal Medicine: A Monthly Record of the World's Progress in Medicine and Surgery, pages 423-426, Dr. William Lee Howard published a rather fascinating (but revoltingly racist) article The Negro as a Distinct Ethnic Factor in Civilization.
Huxley once said: "Knowledge does not go beyond phenomena." This aphorism does not hold good among the majority of those who write and talk on the "Negro Question", because few of these people have any distinct knowledge of the peculiar phenomena seen in the African race. At least, it appears that the physiologic and anatomic facts--or phenomena--which prove the negro to be a distinct ethnic factor are either unknown or unrealized by those who attempt by schools and colleges to give the negro the ethical feeling of the Caucasian. The attitude of complacent moralists, the preaching of far distant ascetics, and the Sunday-school advice of the New England maiden who would take the African to her bosom, would be amusing were it not for the serious conditions underlying the misunderstood facts.
The truth is that the negro of to-day, untrammeled and free from control, is rapidly showing atavistic tendencies. He is returning to a state of savagery, and in his frequent attacks of sexual madness, his religious emotionalism, superstition, and indolence, is himself again--a savage. This animalism, this innate character of the African, will demonstrate itself more and more as he is allowed the liberty of his sway of ancestral sexual impulses, and as long as moralists and sociologists of the "suppressive school" continue to remain purblind to the negro's dominant physiologic and psychologic organism.
The anatomical and physiological conditions of the African must be understood, his place in the anthropoligical scale realized, and his biologic basis accepted as being unchangeable by man before we can scientifically and humanely place this ethnic factor where it belongs.
Let if first be understood that there can never be any inter-racial relations of Caucasian and African, socially or sexually. Any such relation is prevented by the great sexual, anatomical, and physiological differences, and any attempt at such relations means complexly ruinous results.The African is also unlike the Caucasian in secondary sexual characters, and this being so he can never be absolutely alike in the highest psychical processes. These facts are ignored by those who would have the African brought into social relations with the white woman, and by those who ignorantly believe that a few years of Latin and Bible teaching will deprive him of periodical erethisms of the sexual centers. When education and religious teaching change the biologic basis of his color it will also be able to change the anatomical and physiological reason for his sexuality and bestiality....
...It is useless for philanthropists, preachers, and editors in the north, or any other part of the country where the African is not understood or studied, to talk about school controlling his hereditary racial instincts. His individual parts are unknown to such people...We must penetrate beneath superficial ideas, throw aside prudish philosophy, and open our eyes to anatomical and psychical facts if we wish to render justice to civilization. Silence regarding sexual matters must give way to vocative statements, for it is by these unavoidable statements that we must be guided in dealing with this negro question....
...The belief that the African was capable of living as hygienically and morally as the Caucasian was the great mistake made by those who deal in abstract principles...
...Education as it is understood by the white man will never, in the full-blooded African, affect centers above those governing the animal instincts. It is a fact observed by those who are in a position to study the negro that with the advent of puberty all intellectual developments ceases...With the advent of puberty the negro shows his genesic instincts to be the controlling factor in his life...In the increase of rape on white women we see the explosing of a long train of antecedent preparation.. The attacks on defenseless white women are evidences of racial instincts that are about as amenable to ethical culture as it is the inherent odor of the race....When education will reduce the large size of the negro's penis as well as bring about the sensitiveness of the terminal fibers which exist in the Caucasian, then will it also be able to prevent the African's birthright to sexual madness and excess--from the Caucasian's point of view...
..."The free sexual life of the krall...has given the negro male a sexual development, anatomical and physiological, unapproached except among the lower animals" (Barringer). The size of the penis as measured by Burton among many hundred negroes was found to be six inches, quiescent. According to the general law, to which this is no exception, the genital organs of the male are in proper proportion, as regards size, to the dimensions of the female organs...
...No extent of education has produced in the present-day negro any ethical understanding of the fidelity of married life. He has no code of ethics or morals to control adultery...
And, Dr. Howard goes on, and on, and on. Click on the link above if you want to read any more.
We see right away that Southern resentment of Northern "Liberals" and "Goody-goodies" was just as strong in 1903 as it is today, and as it was during the Emancipation era. "Y'all don't have to live with any dirty, smelly niggers--so, don't go tellin' us how we should treat 'em!"
Although the image of a big, burly Black man, with a jumbo-sized penis, raping or seducing a sweet, delicate young White virgin does send a few shudders, in fairness, it should be pointed out that, over the past few centuries, there have probably been a heck of a lot more rapes of Black women by White men than the other way around. Particularly during the days of slavery, when a master could rape or make a concubine of any slave he wanted. Thomas Jefferson, one of the Founding Fathers of our great nation, was, himself, the father of many of his own slaves, and started boning Sally Hemings when she was just 14 years old. In her 1861 book Incidents in the Life of a Slave Girl, escaped slave Harriet Ann Jacobs wrote:
My master was, to my knowledge, the
father of eleven slaves. But did the mothers dare to
tell who was the father of their children? Did the
other slaves dare to allude to it, except in whispers
among themselves? No, indeed! They knew too
well the terrible consequences..
Here is what the eminent orator, and probably the greatest figure in American history, Frederick Douglass, wrote of his parentage:
My mother was named Harriet Bailey. She was the
daughter of Isaac and Betsey Bailey, both colored, and
quite dark. My mother was of a darker complexion than
either my grandmother or grandfather.
My father was a white man. He was admitted to be such
by all I ever heard speak of my parentage. The opinion
was also whispered that my master was my father; but of
the correctness of this opinion, I know nothing; the means
of knowing was withheld from me. My mother and I were
separated when I was but an infant--before I knew her as
my mother. It is a common custom, in the part of
Maryland from which I ran away, to part children from
their mothers at a very early age. Frequently, before the
child has reached its twelfth month, its mother is taken
from it, and hired out on some farm a considerable distance
off, and the child is placed under the care of an old woman,
too old for field labor. For what this separation is done, I
do not know, unless it be to hinder the development of the
child's affection toward its mother, and to blunt and
destroy the natural affection of the mother for the child.
This is the inevitable result.
I never saw my mother, to know her as such, more than
four or five times in my life; and each of these times was
very short in duration, and at night. She was hired by a
Mr. Stewart, who lived about twelve miles from my home. She made her journeys to see me in
the night, travelling the whole distance on foot, after the
performance of her day's work. She was a field hand, and a
whipping is the penalty of not being in the field at sunrise,
unless a slave has special permission from his or her master
to the contrary--a permission which they seldom get, and
one that gives to him that gives it the proud name of being a
kind master. I do not recollect of ever seeing my mother by
the light of day. She was with me in the night. She would lie
down with me, and get me to sleep, but long before I waked
she was gone. Very little communication ever took place
between us. Death soon ended what little we could have
while she lived, and with it her hardships and suffering. She
died when I was about seven years old, on one of my
master's farms, near Lee's Mill. I was not allowed to be
present during her illness, at her death, or burial. She was
gone long before I knew any thing about it. Never having
enjoyed, to any considerable extent, her soothing presence,
her tender and watchful care, I received the tidings of her
death with much the same emotions I should have probably
felt at the death of a stranger.
Called thus suddenly away, she left me without the
slightest intimation of who my father was. The whisper
that my master was my father, may or may not be true;
and, true or false, it is of but little consequence to my
purpose whilst the fact remains, in all its glaring
odiousness, that slaveholders have ordained, and by law
established, that the children of slave women shall in all
cases follow the condition of their mothers; and this is done too obviously to administer to
their own lusts, and make a gratification of their wicked
desires profitable as well as pleasurable; for by this
cunning arrangement, the slaveholder, in cases not a few,
sustains to his slaves the double relation of master and father.
I know of such cases; and it is worthy of remark that such slaves
invariably suffer greater hardships, and have more to
contend with, than others. They are, in the first place, a
constant offence to their mistress. She is ever disposed to
find fault with them; they can seldom do any thing to
please her; she is never better pleased than when she sees
them under the lash, especially when she suspects her
husband of showing to his mulatto children favors which
he withholds from his black slaves. The master is
frequently compelled to sell this class of his slaves, out of
deference to the feelings of his white wife; and, cruel as
the deed may strike any one to be, for a man to sell his
own children to human flesh-mongers, it is often the
dictate of humanity for him to do so; for, unless he does
this, he must not only whip them himself, but must stand
by and see one white son tie up his brother, of but few
shades darker complexion than himself, and ply the
gory lash to his naked back; and if he lisp one word of
disapproval, it is set down to his parental partiality,
and only makes a bad matter worse, both for
himself and the slave whom he would protect and
defend.
Every year brings with it multitudes of this class of
slaves....
In 2003, shortly after his death, it was revealed that Strom Thurmond, one of the 20th Century's most notorious segregationists, had fathered a mulatto girl with a 16-year-old Black servant at his parents' house. He never publicly acknowledged his own daughter during his long lifetime. If he had been a Black man impregnating a White girl in South Carolina: the Black man would probably have been killed. He certainly would not have proceeded to enjoy a long and prestigious political career. One of Mr. Thurmond's famous quotes from his 1948 presidential run:
I wanna tell you, ladies and gentlemen, that there's not enough troops
in the army to force the Southern people to break down segregation and
admit the nigger race into our theatres, into our swimming pools, into our
homes, and into our churches.
Referring back to Dr. Howard's article above: his many protestations concerning the size of the Black man's genitalia can only mean that Dr. Howard suffered from what Freud called "penis envy."
Given that it was White men who were making the rules, which were designed to keep White women away from the prize of a Black man's cock, we can only conclude that Dr. Howard and other White men were very much ashamed of the size of their own cocks, particularly compared to the impressive stature of the Black appendage.
White women had no say in the matter, and weren't asked their opinion. If White women were really as repelled by the massive size and potency of the big Black dick as Dr. Howard thought that they should be, then there would have been no more need to fabricate any "anti-miscegenation" laws than there is to make a law against eating poo. Dr. Howard contrives a lot of other excuses, and goes to a lot of effort to defame and denigrate the Black race, the same way that a girl puts down and slut-shames her rival for a boy's affection. Dr. Howard could just as well have said "their dicks are bigger than ours, and we don't want our women to flock to the Black men, because, in a fair competition based on dick size, we would lose every time." (Well, until Ron Jeremy showed up, anyway). At least he would have been honest. But, As John Lily said, "the rules of fair play do not apply in love and war." If New England maidens start taking African men to their bosoms, then whom are the White men going to fuck? If there is anything to his statement regarding the
intimidating dimensions of the Black female reproductive organ, then Dr. Howard was obviously much too ashamed even to try pleasing a Black woman with his miniature, inadequate joystick. Well, Denise LaSalle had some valuable advice for him:
The end of the "anti-miscegenation" laws does indeed seem to have resulted in a fairly large number of White women acting upon their fascination with Black men.
Lyrics: Black boys are delicious, chocolate flavored love.
Licorice lips like candy. Keep my cocoa handy.
I have such a sweet tooth when it comes to love.
Black boys are delicious, mocha mousse, hot fudge.
Maple syrup plenty. Hot brown sugar daddies.
They are my desert trays when it comes to love.
Once I tried a diet Of quiet, rest, no sweets.
But I went nearly crazy. And I went nearly crazy.
Because I really craved for my chocolate flavored treats.
Oh!
Black boys are nutritious. Black boys fill me up.
Black boys are so damn yummy. They satisfy my tummy.
Black boys are delicious raisins in the sun.
Black, black, black, Black, black, black, Black, black, Black boys!
And, where do White women go for their sex tours?
Jamaica:
Senegal:
Possibly Guadeloupe:
Refrain
Francky: Tu veux mon zizi?
Girls: Oui oui oui oui
Francky: J'vais te le donner oui oui oui oui
Ladies: Go ahead! Enjoy some zizi in the French Caribbean, or a piece of that Big Bamboo on the English-speaking islands!
It might even be more fun than a ride on the Sybian!
Hell, in another hundred years you'll be dead, and it won't matter anyway. Enjoy the genitalia that Almighty God gave you, before it is too late!
First off, the term "mail-order bride" is generally criticized by both owners and customers of international marriage agencies, but is still used by them as an easily recognizable term, particularly in an internet search engine. The term may have originated in 19th century North America as men migrated west. As very few women lived there at this time, the men sought to find women back East by writing letters to churches and publishing personal advertisements in magazines and newspapers. Courtship proceeded via the mail. The same thing occurred among Japanese immigrants, as illustrated in the movie Picture Bride, and among European immigrants, as portrayed in the movie Sweet Land.
Cherry Blossoms, perhaps the best known of the international marriage agencies, started in 1973 with a monthly magazine that featured pictures of women (mostly from the Philippines) who were seeking husbands primarily in the United States. Since 2001, Cherry Blossoms switched to an entirely web-based format.
TLC broadcast a fascinating television show called 90 Day Fiancé, which featured the stories of 4 international couples (4 American men and their foreign fiancées, who were in the United States on K-1 visas). The couples had 90 days to get married, or the fiancée had to return to her home country. When Tonya, the ex-wife of Louis (one of the men), asked him whether his fiancée (from the Philippines) was a "mail-order bride", he looked away uncomfortably, and said "No, she's not a mail-order bride", and then explained how he had found her on an internet dating site. "Mail-order bride" is a sensitive term, but it will do, here, for now.
As previously mentioned, many American Feminists are quite hostile to the concept of heterosexual monogamous marriage. "A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle" is a well-known Steinemism. And, of those Feminists who are up for heterosexual marriage, the demands on the husband can be quite rigorous. For example, Pamela Clark published a list of 35 stipulations for men to support Feminism:
1. Do 50% (or more) of housework.
2. Do 50% (or more) of emotional support work in your intimate relationships and friendships.
3. Consume cultural products produced by women.
4. Give women space.
5. … but insert yourself into spaces where you can use your maleness to interrupt sexism.
6. When a woman tells you something is sexist, believe her.
7. Educate yourself about sexual consent and make sure there is clear, unambiguous communication of consent in all your sexual relationships.
8. Be responsible for contraception.
9. Get the HPV vaccine.
10. Have progressive name politics.
If you and your female partner decide that the institution of marriage is something you want to be involved with, be willing to both keep your existing surnames. If having a common surname with your spouse is important to you, be willing to change your surname and treat this as a preferable option to your spouse changing hers.
11. If you have children, be an equal parent.
12. Pay attention to and challenge informal instances of gender role enforcement.
13. Be mindful of implicit and explicit gendered power differentials in your intimate/domestic relationships with women…whether a partner or family members or roommates.
14. Make sure that honesty and respect guide your romantic and sexual relationships with women.
15. Don’t be an online bystander in the face of sexism.
16. Be responsible with money in domestic/romantic relationships.
17. Be responsible for your own health.
18. Don’t ogle or make comments about women. (i.e., Keep your tongue in your mouth and comments to yourself.)
19. Pay attention to the sex of experts and key figures presenting information to you in the media.
20. Ensure that some of your heroes and role models are women.
21. Praise the virtues and accomplishments of women in your life to others.
22. Have integrity with your male friends. (i.e., Don’t be a “bro.”)
23. Don’t treat your spouse like a “nag.” If she is “nagging,” you are probably lagging.
24. Know that acknowledging your own sexist opinions and stereotypes you hold is not enough. Do something about them.
25. Befriend women.
26. Find female mentors/leaders. (i.e., Be subordinate to women.)
27. When in a romantic relationship, be responsible for events and special dates associated with your side of the family.
28. Don’t police women’s appearance.
29. Offer to accompany female friends if they have to walk home alone at night…or in a public space where they may be likely to feel unsafe.
30. Inject feminism into your daily conversations with other men.
31. If you have a tendency to behave inappropriately toward women when you are under the influence of drugs or alcohol, do not consume drugs or alcohol.
32. Be aware of the physical and emotional space you occupy, and don’t take up more space than you need.
33. Walk the walk about income inequality.
34. Get in the habit of treating your maleness as an unearned privilege that you have to actively work to cede rather than femaleness being an unearned disadvantage that women have to work to overcome.
35. Self-identify as a feminist.
Why don't they just tell us to wear a leash and to pee sitting down? A lot of the international marriage agencies cite Feminism as a reason for men to seek wives abroad. For example, from Hand-in-Hand, which offers Czech brides:
This program is designed for single men looking for a true life partner who is beautiful, significantly younger, educated, is unspoiled by feminism and whose culture is one of support & respect.
"If
you are, "sick to the back teeth" (as I was) with the new breed
of twenty-first century woman. Disillusioned with the kind of de-feminised,
over-sized, overbearing, self centred, mercenary minded lady available on
the Western singles scene, whose middle name, should be "What have
you done for me lately?"! Who is only out for what she can get -
Perhaps you are not "Gods gift to women", (or perhaps you are;
and are not appreciated!) feel that you may be past your sell-by date, or
are a workaholic, young or old, with no time to socialise, or when you do
experience the single scene you are completely disillusioned with it all.
Whatever has been the final "Straw to break the camels back" in
your mind - There IS an answer T.P.I. SERVICES ARE FOR YOU! - Let
us make your dreams and aspirations a reality - WE DELIVER!!"
Do understand that caring for you in cooking, cleaning and washing your clothes gives her pleasure and she is happy caring for you in this way. She will want you to know and feel she will make you a good wife. 50/50 sharing the chores has not yet arrived in Thailand try not to impose that on her it may confuse her and if her mother finds out you are doing the washing it may get her some grief from the family.
Well, that does seem refreshing. Some further guidance from the site:
Do respect who and what she is. Be careful how much you change her. Don't try to make her the same as you in all things western. You fell in love with whom and what she is. You may not like what you change her into. If you want a western lady there are many where you came from.
Mali is a tall, black-haired 30 year-old with a nice smile. We exchanged formalities, caught a quick breakfast on the street and began the journey back to my apartment....We entered my modest flat and I was pleased at her lack of reaction when she saw that there was only one bed. After a short trip to the bathroom, I came out to find that she had made the bed and had put two of my t-shirts into the cabinet. "Thank you, Mali. You are my guest. You don't have to do that."
"No problem. Every woman should look after her man", she answered with a smile.
"Wow. I guess we should organize some special training here for European women."
"The women in Europe don't act like this?"
"Not at all."
"I think it's natural."
"I think so, too.".......I put on my emergency set of elegant clothes thing about all of my European ex-girlfriends who, in comparison to Thai women, acted like men in skirts.
I've similarly heard men from Latin America describe our women as "men with tits." A lot of American women don't wear skirts, but do generally seek to emphasize, and even exaggerate the appearance of the breasts. So, "men with tits" is probably a more apt description than "men in skirts", at least for the American ladies. Here is one woman's perspective on cultural differences:
In the Comment Section below this YouTube video, a user wrote:
As
a man who now has a really good relationship with an Asian woman, I can
shed a bit of light on why more men are deserting western women. I
don't claim that my view is the only view, there are many reasons but
generally I think its because more and more western men perceive
relationships with western women as a zero sum game. By that I mean,
sensible men tend to make calculated risks, not impulsive risks. And
relationships with a significant portion of western women carry far
greater risks to a point where he essentially has to enter a high stakes
gamble with the odds firmly against him at the outset. And what he
gambles is his future, his reputation, his identity and his sense of
personal values and integrity. Asian women on the other hand will at
least meet you halfway. Most Western women bring into a relationship
three things. 1. Unreasonable Demands, 2. Unreasonable Conditions 3.
Unreasonable ultimatums. And these three things are designed by western
women to result in the highest probable rate of failure for men.
Conversely, they demand from men that women be excluded from the same
three things.
More insanely most western women aren't
self-reflective, they are self centered and entitled-minded. Notice how
they run off an endless list of what they expect a man to be and what a
man must have that they never feel the need to be or have themselves. An
example: Western women automatically default to the usual answer to the
question of why men go for Asian women. "Its because they are
intimidated by a strong independent woman." Right there they kill any
measure of self-reflection and mock the man as if he were operating on
fear and an inferiority complex. In the one answer they don't realize
they've supplied the real answer but are too self-absorbed and
narcissistic to conceptualize it.
For decades most western women
have been told they were special and that men couldn't live without them
and so they didn't feel like they had to meet him halfway. So they
treat their boyfriends and husbands more like personal assistants and
barely paid day laborers than human beings. Asian women in my experience
have not forgotten that men are human beings and we have value
independent of a need for validation from them. They encourage our
potential and can empathize with us when hard times arrive. They can
also see beyond a selfish need to make everything about them and in
doing so land men willing to listen to them and want to elevate them on
merit and emotion.
Of course, the Feminists didn't care much for the "Unspoiled by Feminism" and "Culture of Support & Respect" memes used in Hand-in-Hand's marketing:
--Me thinks they don't mean respect of each other as equals. Subservient is probably what they're looking for.
--I just don't see how they mixed up those words. At the very least they could be honest about the "respect" they're selling!
--They would say that men and women are equal, but different. God and/or nature designed different roles for the sexes to play, and a good man respects his barefoot, pregnant, blowjob-giving, from-an-"exotic"-culture wife just fine.
--She births his children, raises them to his specifications, keeps house the way he likes, fucks how and when he likes, cooks foods he enjoys and has the dishes cleaned away promptly. And he occasionally compliments her for being "not like those ugly feminist bitches who don't know their place.
--What would be the female equivalent of this? I really think someone selling this should be smacked. I mean clearly they didn't make it in the human trafficking business... or did they and this is their subtle(not so subtle) way of selling them off? I can't look anymore at it or I am going to try and spam that email with hate. SPOILED FEMINIST HATE!
--Oh gawd I went to the website and now I feel like crying.
AnastasiaDate developed a fairly nice video advertisement about a couple (Nathan Adams from Utah, and Elena Adamchiyk from Ukraine) that the service had helped bring together last year:
Sick of Utah Women, Dad is Poster Boy for Overseas Dating
Nathan Adams, a 45-year-old aircraft mechanic who hates dating, makes an odd poster boy for international online dating. But that’s what he’s literally become since he turned to AnastasiaDate.com out of frustration with women in Utah. After a romance via letters and Skype, he and Elena Adamchiyk, a native of Ukraine, are planning to marry before her 90-day fiancée visa runs out.
Adams feels like he hit the jackpot. "Dating Elena is like dating a model … who has the values of my grandmother," he says. "If somebody had told me a year ago what my life would be like today, I wouldn’t believe them."...
..."I want marriage. I don’t want Russian marriage," says Adamchiyk, 34, who was married twice before in the former Soviet republic to men who cheated, a behavior she asserts is not uncommon there. This time around, she was looking for a man who would be loyal, who didn’t drink or do drugs, and who would treat her with respect. "This was my dream," Adamchiyk says. "I want to take care of Nate and Nessa [Vanessa’s nickname]. This is first."
"I’d had enough." Divorced for several years from Vanessa’s mother (who has since died), Adams says he dated women who either didn’t want to help him rear his daughter or were mostly interested in his money. He ran into a fair amount of bitterness and anger toward men. It was, " ‘I want this. I want that. I won’t tolerate this, I won’t tolerate that,’ " he says. "I told my friend I’d had enough. I wanted no more dating around here."
A friend suggested international women via online dating sites; five of his friends at Hill Air Force Base are married to women from other countries, and he liked the idea. So he bought a home computer. At first, he tried a website that connects Western men with Asian women, but was scammed by someone he believed was a model. When he began hearing good things about Ukrainian women — that they are both beautiful and traditional — he tried AnastasiaDate.com....
...‘This was my dream’ » Adams says he "thought long and hard about the kind of person I wanted to meet. No matter how beautiful they are, they had to be interested in being a family." He didn’t want women age 30 or younger because, in his experience, they’re interested in clubbing. He didn’t want a woman older than 36 because he believes most have already reared children and aren’t interested in mothering a young child....
..."If you’re dating someone local and … your relationship starts out with having sex with them, you’re not really their friend." Online, he says, "You have to take the time to sit and write a letter."...
...In September 2012, Adams traveled to Odessa to meet Adamchiyk. He went back in May for several weeks....Adamchiyk, who was 32 and managing a department store when she met Adams, says she was attracted to his eyes, which struck her as kind and loyal. But there was something more. "You want truth?" she says. "First, when I saw Nessa, I fall in love with her. This was my dream," she says. "She is my daughter."
One Utah man has bravely gone where no man has gone before: online, in search of a foreign bride who looks like a model but has the values of his grandmother. These matrimony-worthy prizes do not exist in the den of iniquity that is the United States, so he found her in Ukraine, and is now, happily, the King of overseas dating....
...both Adams and Adamchiyk seem to have found what they were looking for: Adamchiyk was married twice before to men who cheated (apparently, men don't cheat in America, and the streets are paved with cheese), and wanted a loyal spouse who would treat her with respect. She yearned to be a mother, and said she first fell in love with Adams when she saw his 6-year-old daughter, Vanessa.
Adams, on the other hand, was looking for a wife/mother who wasn't interested in his money or harboring "a fair amount of bitterness and anger" towards men (apparently, there are no misandrists overseas). First, he was scammed by someone he believed was a model (shucks). Then, he heard that Ukranian women were both beautiful and respectable: jackpot!! Eventually, he found Adamchiyk.
I'd like to keep ribbing on Adams, who was clearly searching for a compliant, deferential wife, not an equal — why else use a site where women don't have to pay? — and being so goddamn picky about it. ("He didn’t want women age 30 or younger because, in his experience, they’re interested in clubbing. He didn’t want a woman older than 36 because he believes most have already reared children and aren’t interested in mothering a young child.")...
...If he turns out to be a controlling dick, let's hope she's just in it for the visa. Ah, romance!
Well, in the Comment Section to the above YouTube video, Mr. Adams wrote:
After spending many months on Anastasia's Dating Sight, using chat, video cam, and letters. I meet many interesting ladies from the Ukraine. Ukraine ladies are very interesting to say the very least. Very beautiful, strong will, but even stronger .... a love and desire to have a family. They are very different than ladies in the United States. I was very lucky to meet Elena...the only lady I ever meet in the Ukraine. I hit the lottery!!!!! Good luck to all that try International Dating...try it).
So, I imagine that things are still going fine for them. Based upon Miss Clark's list (above), a man might be a "controlling dick" if he asked his wife not to nag him too much, or did something else that she regarded as a sign of insubordination. It looks like Mr. Adams didn't change his surname to Adamchiyk, which must make him a misogynist at the very least. As long as Mrs. Adams doesn't have any Feminists telling her how awful she has it, then they should be fine.
Getting back to TLC's 90 Day Fiancé television show, here are the four couples:
Clockwise from the top left:
--Mike (31) and Aziza (21, from Russia)
--Russ (27) and Paula (26, from Colombia)
--Louis (33) and Aya (30, from the Philippines)
--Alan (29) and Kirlyam (21, from Brazil)
A fair question might be: if these men wanted to get married so badly, then why didn't they work harder to get themselves an American wife, with good, Feminist values? I don't mean to speak for them (they are all such cute couples), but I think that most men would find Miss Clark's list of 35 stipulations to be not only discouraging, but a major boner-deflater. Moreover, as I understand it, Feminists are not supposed to reward men for being
"good." They might punish men who failed to live up to the Feminist standards of
goodness. If a man is interested in a little hanky-panky: Feminists will have coitus
with men to whom they are sexually attracted, and are not going to give it to anyone
as a reward for being "good." No man should feel "entitled", for any reason whatsoever. As previously discussed, an American woman typically doesn't care for the "sweet, sensitive, respectful boyfriend in the new mold who asks her what she wants in bed", because "she is bored out of her mind and irritated by him." American women generally prefer men who are sexually aggressive, which seems rather paradoxical given the Feminists' demand for compliance with their list of stipulations.
As to what these four gents might have encountered, had they pursued romantic relationships with American women, here are some comments about these men from Lipstick Alley:
--All of these men are ugly and these women have these fake smiles on. Hot mess.
--All the men are ugly White dudes with foreign fiancés. These men are dumb ass hell if they think these girls actually like them.
--All the dudes are delusional, and the big chubby guy.. smh
--I think guys in these situations like being in relationships where the other person is totally dependent on them. None of this is about love - only power and control. It won't end well for the guys once the woman gets established and americanized.
--And those women would be fools to think that these nigs dont want nothing more then their own personal sex/housekeeping slaves. Did you see that scene where that bish was scrubbing her clothes in that sink, and that negro was like, will you miss this? This is your last chance to decide...... She was like nigga, just get me to America, I'll take it from there.
--Anyway, Kirylam is very beautiful. Her beau (Alan?) knows she is way too good looking for him, and he could never get an American girl that looks like her. He better try to marry her and knock her up before she gets wise to the fact that she could do much better.
--Holy Mother of God, I am just seeing this show for the first time---am I crazy or are at least 2 of these dudes gay? The one with the tattooed ex-wife--I just looked up his name--LOUIS. That one is gay.
--Russ from OK seems gay to me also.
According to our women, these gents are ugly, dumb as Hell, delusional, and gay. And, their fiancées are much too pretty for them, so their fiancées are obviously faking it until their immigration status is settled.
Probably the only American women who would have been at all interested in any of these men would have been women who had hit "The Wall", and who were well aware of it.
Women who knew that their residual reproductive value was quickly approaching zero, and who were finally ready to swallow Lori Gottlieb's advice:
...Settle! That’s right. Don’t worry about passion or intense connection. Don’t nix a guy based on his annoying habit of yelling “Bravo!” in movie theaters. Overlook his halitosis or abysmal sense of aesthetics. Because if you want to have the infrastructure in place to have a family, settling is the way to go...
American women who are the same age as (or younger than) the men who were in 90 Day Fiancé aren't about to "settle." And, as these men seem interested in having children, there really would have been little point in risking everything on an old hag whose time had nearly expired. Generally speaking:
1. Most men, regardless of how old they might
be, how ugly or handsome they might be, how much attention they pay to
their own personal hygiene, or how much wealth they might possess, are
attracted to healthy, nubile, attractive women between the ages of 18
and 29.
2. Healthy, nubile, attractive women between the ages of 18 and 29 know
that most men are attracted to them, and can afford to flaunt it.
3. Where demand greatly outstrips supply, the market price is going to rise.
See my article on economics.
then you've got the pick of the litter. Women over 30 who remain sexually active are called "cougars", and guys may be creeped out when approached by a cougar. There are probably plenty of older and fatter women who are hungry for a bit of attention. I'd be very surprised if James Woods' first wife was getting any wood at all these days.
If your target remains healthy, nubile, attractive
women between the ages of 18 and 29, then you might want to take honest
stock of what you have to offer them. You have a lot of competition,
and if you think that you are coming up short, then you might consider
seeking a bride abroad, where a woman who meets your requirements will
be thrilled at what you have to offer. Or, give some thought to
loosening your standards for potential partners in your home country.
